Wednesday, August 27, 2003

MOODS...


What's your usual [mood]?


RELATIONSHIPS....


Do you need a boy/girl friend now?


PERSONALITY TEST

Here's another one of those personality tests that i got from my email.....

These are my answers.....
closed, square, half, porcelain, speed of water - 10, no. of keys - 5, new castle, pick up jewelry, pickup money, medium box, wooden bridge, white horse, nibbling grass, run to the horse, ride on and gallop away

Take a piece of paper and write down the answers. The analysis is in the end....

Situation:
You are in a deep deep forest... as you walk on you saw an old hut standing there
(1) What is the status of the door? (Opened/closed)

You enter the hut and see a table...
(2) What is the shape of the table? (Round/Oval/Square/Rectangle/Triangle)

On top of the table there is a vase... in the vase there is water.
(3) How much water is it filled up with? (Full/Half/Empty)
(4) and what is the vase made of? [(Glass/porcelain/clay), (metal/plastic/wood)]

You walk out of the hut... as you carry on your walk in the forest... you see a waterfall from far... there is water running down...

(5) What is the speed of the water? (Choose a number ranging from 0 to 10)

Some time after the waterfall... you step on something hard on the ground... as you look down...you see glistening gold in colour. You bend down and pick it up... it is a keychain chained with keys...

(6) How many key /keys you see hanging on the keychain? (Choose a number ranging from 1 to 10)

You walk on and on... trying to find your way out... suddenly you see a castle.
(7) What is the condition of the castle? (Old/new)

You enter the castle and saw a pool of murky water with shining jewels floating on it...
(8) Will you pick up the jewel? (YES/NO)

Next to the murky pool... there's another pool... with clear water and money floating on it...
(9) Will you pick the money? (YES/NO)

Walking to the end of the castle there is an exit... you proceed to walk out of the castle. Outside the exit, there is big garden, you see a box on the ground.

(10) What is the size of the box? (small/medium/big)
(11) What is the material of the box? (cardboard/paper/wooden/metal)

There is a bridge in the garden some distance away from the box,
(12) What is the bridge made of? (metal/wooden/rattan)

Across the bridge, there is a horse.
(13) What is the colour of the horse? (white/grey/brown/black)
(14) What is the horse doing? (still and quiet/nibbling grass/running about)

OH NO!!! There is a tornado coming... some distance from the horse. You have 3 options:
(i) run and hide in the box?
(ii) run and hide under the bridge?
(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?
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Here are the interpretations:
(1) The door:

opened door - you are a person who is willing to share
closed door- you are a person who is keeping things to yourself

(2) The table:

Round/oval - any friends that came along, you will accept and trust them completely
Square/rectangle - you are a bit more choosy on friends and only hangout with those whom you think are on the same frequency
Triangle - you are really very very picky about friends and there are not many friends in your life

3) Water in vase:

Empty - your life is not fulfilled
Half filled - what you want in your life is half fulfilled
Full - your life is completely fulfilled and good for you! :

4) Material of vase:

glass/clay/porcelain - you are weak in your life and tends to be fragile
metal/plastic/wood - you are strong in your life

(5) Flow of waterfall:

0 - no sex drive at all
1 to 4 - low sex drive
5 - average sex drive
6 to 9 - high sex drive
10 - gone case!!! super high sex drive!!! Can't live without sex...

(6) Keys:

1 - you have one good friend in your life
2 to 5 - you have a few good friends in your life
6 to 10 - you have a lot good friends

(7) Castle:

Old - shows that your last relationship is not a good one and is not memorable to you.
New - your last relationship is good and it's still fresh in your heart.

(8) The jewel from the murky pool water:

YES - when your partner is around you, you will flirt around with others.
NO - when your partner is around, you will stick around with him/her most of the time.

(9) The money from the clear water pool:

YES - even when your partner is not around you,you will still flirt around with others.
NO - even when your partner is not around, you will still think of her and and will be loyal to her, not flirting around with others.

(10) The size of the box:

small - low ego
medium - average ego
big - high ego

(11) Material of the box (outlook of the box):

cardboard/paper/wooden(non-shining) - humble personality
metal - proud and stuck up personality

(12) The material of the bridge:

metal bridge - have very strong bond with your friends
wooden bridge - average bond with your friends
rattan bridge - you are not in good terms with your friends

(13) Colour of the horse:

white - your partner is pure and good in your heart.
grey/brown - your partner is only average in your heart.
black - your partner doesn't seem to be good in your heart and appears to be bad sign.

(14) Horse action:

still and quiet/nibbling grass - your partner is a very homely and humble person.
running about - your partner is a wild type person.

This the last but most important part of the test. From how I ended the story... a tornado approaches... What are you going do? There are only 3 options:

(i) run and hide in the box?
(ii) run and hide under the bridge?
(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?

What will you choose? Now, the above is signified by these things:

tornado - problems in your life
box - you
bridge - your friends
horse - your partner

(i) So if you choose the box, you keep your problems to yourself whenever you are met with problems.
(ii) or if you choose the bridge, you will go to your friends whenever you are met problems.
(iii) or lastly if you choose the horse, you seek your partner whenever your partner whenever you are met with problems.

Tuesday, August 26, 2003

Got this from work....

"The Power of Leadership Storytelling"
By: Melissa Delin

Leadership development, at its core, is about creating changes in thinking and behavior. Outstanding leaders are capable of affecting great change at all levels: in themselves, in the people they manage, in the teams they direct, in the business units they run, and in the organizations of which they are a part. All managers are capable of becoming great leaders; however, the growing process does not come naturally to everyone. Leadership is a blend of instincts, skills, and choices, some of which are innate, others of which are acquired. Often, a manager's natural leadership qualities reveal themselves in times of crisis, when the stakes are high and seemingly impossible things are achieved. For leadership development professionals, the ultimate challenge is to bottle that experience in order to find a way to inspire managers to that level of commitment and passion in their daily management tasks, as well as infect others with their enthusiasm.

Executive storytelling is a powerful medium for recognizing and cultivating leadership potential. Growing in popularity, leadership stories are based on a simple, compelling principle: role models. Children are often encouraged to seek role models so that they can build confidence and adopt positive values; adults too are moved by stories of human greatness. During a leadership development experience, connecting such stories to everyday work challenges can result in profound transformation. In the Summer 2002 issue of Sloan Management Review, Douglas Reddy proclaims that, "executive storytelling initiatives outperformed many other [leadership] methodologies."

For a leadership story to have the desired effect, it must meet a certain level of criteria. It must be engaging and memorable. It will usually involve a measure of drama but must also be human, authentic, and easy to identify with. The story must set up the unambiguous challenge, explore the actions of the protagonist, and connect the protagonist's behavior to a clear outcome. Truly great leadership stories share applicable lessons, prompt internal reflection, and instigate debate among listeners. While it is a highly effective vehicle for inspiring leadership in others, leadership storytelling is not without risk. Stories may be rejected by some if the circumstances are perceived as extraordinary or if the protagonist is perceived to be a "hero," someone whose capabilities are beyond typical human reach. To combat resistance, it is incumbent on the storyteller to ensure that the leadership lessons, not the specific conditions, are the focus of the story.